Lately, all you see on Twitter is drama. “OMG, Justin’s with Selena AGAIN.” “Wow, Justin hasn’t tweeted today. He must hate his fans.” “Ugh, Justin always notices the same Beliebers!” No matter what your opinion on any of this, you have to admit that it’s just frustrating. Why can’t we have fun on Twitter anymore? Why can’t we still be that big, Belieber family that everyone envied in 2009? Now, we’re perceived as crazy little girls who are jealous and controlling. Is that really how you want Beliebers to be seen?
We need to back off. Justin is growing up. He’s 17 now; almost a full-blown adult. With that comes relationships, and the need for a personal life. Sure, as a celebrity, Justin will always be in the public eye. But he does deserve some privacy. He shouldn’t have to broadcast his feelings to the entire world, on Twitter or anywhere. If he’s having a bad day, he should be able to be a little down without having people say that he doesn’t care about his fans. If he doesn’t stop to take a picture with a fan, or wave at them, or talk to them, it does not mean that he’s a horrible person. Maybe he’s in a hurry. Maybe he doesn’t want to snap at them, because he’s not in a good mood. Maybe he doesn’t want to be attacked by hundreds of other screaming girls. Think about it – how would it feel to constantly have people wanting something from you? Would you want to always be smiling, when inside you just want to curl up in bed and cry? Think about how difficult that would be. Well, Justin’s LIVING it.
Then, there’s the whole Jelena thing. It really makes me angry when I see fans bashing them together. It’s like, if you were dating somebody, and your entire group of friends HATED the person you were dating for no reason, other than that they were jealous. Wouldn’t you be hurt by that? Wouldn’t it make you sad? Wouldn’t you feel betrayed, even if they weren’t hating on you? Well, that’s what it’s like for Justin, except a million times worse. Even if you’re not hating Justin directly, when you hate on Selena or bash Jelena, you’re hurting Justin. He said it himself: “If you are truly my fan, you will not put down any of my family members of friends. When you smile, I smile and when my friend hurt, I hurt.” Whatever happened to “U smile, I smile”? Whoever Justin’s with, he’s with them because it makes him happy, and you should respect that.
People keep saying that Justin is “changing”, and he doesn’t love his fans as much as he used to. BULLSHIT. That is absolutely untrue. Think about how much he does for us. Think about everything he’s sacrificed for us. He’s given up a normal life. He takes pictures and videos with as many fans as he can. He has meet and greets before every concert. He meets fans with illnesses, just to see them smile. He puts up with the paparazzi, the media, the drama, the rumors, EVERYTHING, just to make music for US. Be thankful. He does a million times more for his fans than any other celebrity, and yet he still gets hate. Right now, Justin’s on vacation. He shouldn’t be worrying about us. He should be enjoying the time he has with his family and his girlfriend, because he barely has any time for that anymore.
Justin’s older. And yes, he’s different, but he’s growing into an even more amazing person with a huge heart. He cares about us. He tries his best. He makes mistakes, like every other teenager. He’ll learn. Just be there for him. Support him, and don’t bring him down, because we’re the ones who got him to where he is today. Would you want to see him crash and burn? Would you want to see his own FANS tear him down? I really hope not. We need to stop being so controlling and just let Justin LIVE. We need to rebuild the Belieber family. We need to focus on the positive things, instead of the drama.
I hope this changes some of your minds. Feel free to comment. ♥